
When Religion Hurts You
Healing from Religious Trauma and the Impact of High-Control Religion
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Laura E. Anderson PhD
About this listen
Religious trauma is something that happens far more often than most people realize. But religious trauma is trauma.
In When Religion Hurts You, Dr. Laura Anderson takes an honest look at a side of religion that few like to talk about. Drawing from her own life and therapy practice, she helps listeners understand what religious trauma is and isn't, and how high-control churches can be harmful and abusive, often resulting in trauma. She shows how elements of fundamentalist church life—such as fear of hell, purity culture, corporal punishment, and authoritarian leaders—can cause psychological, relational, physical, and spiritual damage.
As she explores the growing phenomenon of religious trauma, Dr. Anderson helps listeners embark on a journey of living as healing individuals and finding a new foundation to stand on. Recognizing that healing is a lifelong rather than a linear process, she offers markers of healing for those coming out of painful religious experiences and hope for finding wholeness after religious trauma.
©2023 Laura E. Anderson (P)2023 eChristianListeners also enjoyed...
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With the rise of Trumpism, the American evangelical movement has more political influence than ever—yet at the same time, people are leaving Christianity in record numbers. Why are so many people walking away from the right-wing religion they were raised in, and what are they doing to overcome the past? Writer and podcaster Blake Chastain is uniquely positioned to understand this phenomenon. Raised evangelical, he went to a Christian college intending to become a pastor—until he found himself unable to reconcile his faith with the prejudice and even abuse he saw being done in God’s name.
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Wondering why people are deconstructing? Read this
- By Warren Collier on 10-04-24
By: Blake Chastain
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The Go-Giver Marriage
- A Little Story About the Five Secrets to Lasting Love
- By: John David Mann, Ana Gabriel Mann
- Narrated by: John David Mann, Ana Gabriel Mann
- Length: 4 hrs and 14 mins
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To say love is what makes a marriage work is like saying it takes oxygen to climb a mountain. Yes, oxygen is necessary. But not sufficient. For more than a decade, readers of the best-selling Go-Giver series have been clamoring for a book on how to apply the philosophy at the heart of The Go-Giver to their personal relationships. From the original story’s coauthor and his wife, a clinically trained therapist, this long-awaited sequel shows listeners how to unlock a deeply satisfying, abundant relationship based on simple, everyday acts of generosity.
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Relaxing, informative and enjoyable read
- By Caitlin R on 02-17-23
By: John David Mann, and others
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The People's Hospital
- Hope and Peril in American Medicine
- By: Ricardo Nuila MD
- Narrated by: Ricardo Nuila MD
- Length: 10 hrs and 53 mins
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Where does one go without health insurance, when turned away by hospitals, clinics, and doctors? In The People’s Hospital, physician Ricardo Nuila’s stunning debut, we follow the lives of five uninsured Houstonians as their struggle for survival leads them to a hospital where insurance comes second to genuine care.
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Ben Taub Nurse
- By Patricia Gonzales on 05-11-23
By: Ricardo Nuila MD
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Somatic Trauma Healing
- The At-Home DIY Crash Course in Experiencing True Body Awareness Through Somatic Secrets Anyone Can Do & Insider Techniques Your ... (Sound Healing and Somatic Mindfulness)
- By: Ascending Vibrations
- Narrated by: Alana Marie Cheuvront
- Length: 5 hrs and 15 mins
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Have you suffered trauma in the past? Have you been wanting to relieve unusual symptoms but can’t seem to get to the bottom of it? Stored trauma can often lead to physical pain and the psychological anguish that comes along with it. Want to say good-bye to all of the overwhelming and complex info out there and discover what easily works for you? You see, using somatic healing to your benefit doesn't have to be difficult, even if you feel like you've already tried everything. In fact, it's easier than you think.
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A Must-Read for Survivors of Trauma
- By Anonymous User on 11-06-23
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Baptistland
- A Memoir of Abuse, Betrayal, and Transformation
- By: Christa Brown
- Narrated by: Soren McKay
- Length: 12 hrs and 1 min
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When Christa Brown first spoke out about the sexual abuse she endured in her Texas childhood church, she never imagined it would expose the ethical chasm at the core of the Southern Baptist Convention: male religious leaders so focused on institutional protection that they sacrifice the safety of children. A book about speaking out and speaking up, Baptistland weaves together Christa’s revealing story of hope amid Southern patriarchy and religious fundamentalism.
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It was very boring.
- By Randall Sink on 07-24-24
By: Christa Brown
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Recovering from Purity Culture
- Dismantle the Myths, Reject Shame-Based Sexuality, and Move Forward in Your Faith
- By: Dr. Camden Morgante
- Narrated by: Camden Morgante
- Length: 5 hrs and 45 mins
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We know what is wrong with purity culture—now we need to know how to heal. Drawing on historical and psychological research, her own personal experience, and therapy case studies, Dr. Camden Morgante tackles what comes next in reclaiming our sexuality from the harmful teachings so many evangelical Christians grew up believing.
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Dr.CM separates the good aspects of the culture of purity from the twisted "purity culture" = "Not damaged goods"
- By kalpana s. on 10-18-24
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Freedom of Mind
- Helping Loved Ones Leave Controlling People, Cults, and Beliefs
- By: Steven Hassan
- Narrated by: Steven Hassan
- Length: 10 hrs and 12 mins
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In the post-9/11 world, people are more susceptible than ever to charismatic figures who offer simple, black v. white, us v. them, good v. evil, formulaic solutions. The rise of the internet; increasingly sophisticated knowledge about how to influence and manipulate others; and the growing vulnerabilities of people across the planet-make for a dangerous, potentially devastating combination.
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Excellent content, poor delivery.
- By Luke W on 03-22-24
By: Steven Hassan
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The Prosperity Paradox
- How Innovation Can Lift Nations out of Poverty
- By: Clayton M. Christensen, Efosa Ojomo, Karen Dillon
- Narrated by: Mike Chamberlain
- Length: 9 hrs and 37 mins
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Clayton M. Christensen, the author of such business classics as The Innovator’s Dilemma and the New York Times best-seller How Will You Measure Your Life, and coauthors Efosa Ojomo and Karen Dillon reveal why so many investments in economic development fail to generate sustainable prosperity and offers a groundbreaking solution for true and lasting change.
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Simplistic, lack of insights
- By D. Cameron on 05-24-21
By: Clayton M. Christensen, and others
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Ghosted
- An American Story
- By: Nancy French
- Narrated by: Nancy French
- Length: 9 hrs and 56 mins
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A compelling, thought-provoking memoir about Nancy French's journey from her family's mountain roots to success as a ghostwriter, only to be rejected by her party, church, and community. Ghosted by New York Times bestselling author Nancy French is for all who were alienated by those closest to them and left spiritually and politically homeless.
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I Had No Idea This Book Would Be This Good
- By Brian A. on 05-06-24
By: Nancy French
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A Well-Trained Wife
- My Escape from Christian Patriarchy
- By: Tia Levings
- Narrated by: Tia Levings
- Length: 10 hrs and 54 mins
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Recruited into the fundamentalist Quiverfull movement as a young wife, Tia Levings learned that being a good Christian meant following a list of additional life principles—a series of secret, special rules to obey. Being a godly and submissive wife in Christian Patriarchy included strict discipline, isolation, and an alternative lifestyle that appeared wholesome to outsiders. Women were to be silent, “keepers of the home.” A Well-Trained Wife is an unforgettable memoir about a woman's race to save herself and her family and details the ways that extreme views can manifest in a marriage.
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A review from a chronic non-reviewer
- By T. L. P. on 08-11-24
By: Tia Levings
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The Self-Healing Mind
- An Essential Five-Step Practice for Overcoming Anxiety and Depression, and Revitalizing Your Life
- By: Gregory Scott Brown
- Narrated by: Gregory Scott Brown
- Length: 7 hrs and 34 mins
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Mental health is the driving force behind every decision we make—how we live, work, and love. Many of us suffer from depression and anxiety, which impede our choices and quality of life, and despite the proliferation of prescription drugs, the numbers are growing across the globe. But there is another, proven way to achieve mental wellness, beyond antidepressants and talk therapy. Practicing psychiatrist Gregory Scott Brown believes that mental health begins with actionable self-care.
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initially thought it was crap
- By Amazon Customer on 01-12-25
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Holy Runaways
- Rediscovering Faith After Being Burned by Religion
- By: Matthias Roberts, Jen Hatmaker - foreword
- Narrated by: Matthias Roberts
- Length: 6 hrs and 52 mins
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In Holy Runaways, psychotherapist Matthias Roberts reaches out to those who, like him, want to understand the religion they've run from and erect a new faith on firmer foundations. He concludes that the best blueprint for a new spiritual home requires reimagining ourselves, God, and our very definition of faith.
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Made me feel seen
- By Ember on 01-07-24
By: Matthias Roberts, and others
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- Max
- 10-20-23
A must read if this is your jam…
I’m grateful to have this book for my own healing journey and to recommend to anyone dealing with religious trauma. I’ve done a lot of reading in this area and this is perhaps the most thorough yet accessible treatment I’ve come across yet - certainly one of the first books I’ll think of when asked for a recommendation. Excellent performance by the author - if you like Dr Laura Anderson’s content on social media, you’ll love this book!
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- Buffy Chapman
- 12-13-23
Personal and Professional
Laura brings so much knowledge, both personal and professional, to the topic. Reading her book made me feel validated in my experiences while also offering a valuable perspective on opportunities for healing. I enjoyed her reading of the book as well. I've been listening to her podcasts and the book felt like another conversation rather than a performance. Thank you for the work you're doing!
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- Katie
- 07-13-24
Just phenomenal
Truly invaluable resource for people leaving HRCs & deconstructing and reconstructing. Thank you Laura. Will read over and over again.
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- JT ODEN
- 12-23-24
One of the Best!
I was so blown away by the insightfulness of the book. Not only does the author incorporate her own story but as a clinician, she has included the "whys" in such an detailed way that I found myself throughout the book shaking my head about the things other therapist I have been to for this problem have missed. With all respect for the work I had done on myself with religious trauma, Dr. Anderson accurately describes the problem clinically and does something I had not heard before ---give those of us with adverse experiences permission to be, and live with our experiences—not as I have often been told "just put it behind you", "don't church bash or hurt the cause of Christ", "don't act like a victim". For those that feel they may have had adverse religious experiences of any kind, this is a must read.
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- Natalie Murphy
- 04-05-24
So helpful
If you grew up in a Christian church/community/home. This book will give you clarity. Even if you don’t think you have been harmed, read this book.
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- BDavis
- 12-31-23
So much helpful information
I could not stop listening as there were so many things that connected dots and helped me understand what I’ve been dealing with a little better. I’m so appreciative of this work.
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- Roro L.
- 05-09-24
Amazing- this has helped
From the first chapter to the end, it was so detailed and it completely gave me all the information I was seeking
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- Eli
- 06-21-24
Very Informative!
As someone that recently left a high control religion and is trying to figure out all the emotions that I'm currently going thru and have dealt with in the past, this book shed so much light on things that I never made connections to before! 10/10 would recommend even if you aren't a religious person just so you can better understand what the people in your day to day life might be dealing with!
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- martaelisity
- 02-07-24
The BEST
The MOST compassionate, good, useful, helpful book I have listened to in a long time! Wow! I am speechless! Aside from the sexual issues, I could relate 100%.
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- Carol Larson
- 06-03-24
Such an important book.
There is not a lot written about religious trauma and how it impacts individuals. As a therapist working with individuals from a HDR (high demand religion), I found the message to be consistent with what I see in my practice. This has become an invaluable resource to share with my clients!
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