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  • You Will Find Your People

  • By: Lane Moore
  • Narrated by: Lane Moore
  • Length: 5 hrs and 48 mins
  • 4.0 out of 5 stars (39 ratings)

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You Will Find Your People

By: Lane Moore
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From Lane Moore, the critically acclaimed author of How to Be Alone, comes an intimate yet achingly funny guide on how to make meaningful friendships as an adult.

Like many people navigating adulthood, Lane Moore thought she would have friends by now.

Movies, books, and TV shows tell us we should’ve already found our people by the time we’re adults, or there must be something wrong with us. But where do you find these close friends once you’ve left high school or college? Is it even possible?

You Will Find Your People is the groundbreaking guide to making—and keeping—the friends we’ve all been desperately waiting for. In this unflinching, poignant follow-up to her book Ho w to Be Alone, Moore shows us how to make real friends as an adult, cope with friend breakups, navigate friendships with coworkers, roommates, and family members, and provides real tools on how to create healthy boundaries with friends to deepen your bonds. Through hilarious personal anecdotes and hard-won wisdom, Moore teaches us how to finally work through our fears and past hurts to bravely cultivate and maintain the lifelong friendships we deserve.

This audiobook includes a bonus chapter written by the author exclusively for the audio edition!

©2023 Lane Moore (P)2023 Recorded Books

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Hilarious and Healing

This beautiful audiobook is like a healing balm for the soul. Lane Moore's insights into friendship are so wise and thoughtfully written (and hilarious).

Her narration is warm, funny, and relatable, it feels like a cozy conversation with a friend who just gets you.

I lost count of how often I quietly shouted "Yes!" when she articulated something I always thought was a weird 'me' thing.

No matter what you've been through in friendships, she makes you feel understood and truly not alone.

I hope to reread and keep absorbing, there's so much practical guidance for common situations like friendship with exes, coworkers, family, even animals. :-)

Lane Moore, you are hilarious, your book is brilliant, and you're my BFF in my heart forever.

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Needed this!

Each chapter covers very relatable situations & relationships. Great story telling & funny. Loved this audio book.

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Fun, refreshing, vulnerable & hits the spot.

I loved this book. Lane says things we all feel at times. Funny, tender & real. Highly recommend!!

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Insightful, authentic, and full of charisma

I loved the authenticity and quality of the author narrating this.

Her perspective is so different from mine and prompted valuable and uncomfortable insights about how I can better meet my friends (and future friends) where they are.

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A book recommended to all my friends.

I’ve never felt so heard, seen and understood until I read this book! It was everything I was hoping to learn about friendships. I’m excited to read another book written by Lane Moore!

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Friendship truths

This was a great perspective on friendship especially during a time when more people are choosing not to marry, live solo or what society considers not to be a traditional life. So many people value romantic relationships over friendships. I loved this book and also the first book. Lane Moore is great to listen to and I suggest reading or listening to the 1st book before this one if you are not familiar with her.

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Overall a good perspective on friendships

I enjoyed the book overall. I think Lane did a great job narrating her book. I laughed many times, her raw sense of humor was great. I had several moments of tears as it brought up memories of lost friendships or glad tears for the friends I do have. She made many good points about the work friendships require and the give and take that should happen. I only wish she didn’t use some bad words, like the f*** word, which was maybe 15 or so times in the book, then it might be something I could listen to with my kids or having them in earshot. Had I done more research on Lane (watched some of her comedy for example), I would have been able to guess her writing style.

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Was like listening to advice from a friend

Liked it so much that I’ve already ordered a hard copy for myself, and my best friend.

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I really love how pure and open and honest and raw Lane is. So relatable.

I love Lane’s openness and honesty. Letters I wish I could write my friends is so raw and heartfelt. A very nice touch. Lane writes with a genuine voice that is such a breath of fresh air. This is such a wonderful account of navigating friendship as an adult. 10/10 every time.

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Cringy

I liked Lane’s first book and I can relate to her process of working through her childhood, but this book reads like her therapy journal being marketed as self-help. It’s all very specific to her needs and wants and she projects all her experiences onto the reader as if the they are universal. It made me feel almost defensive. She mostly writes about what her ideal friendships would be like and never considers her own behavior as the other half of these friendships that don’t work out. I think if you’re looking for your people, you should also take some time to look in the mirror and consider what part you are taking in these many MANY failed friendships. Just writing it off to choosing poorly in the first place is a bit of a cop out.

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