
Fighting for Our Friendships
The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships
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Danielle Bayard Jackson
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Bumble BFF’s resident friend expert identifies the 9 most common conflict types in women's platonic relationships, sharing practical strategies to resolve issues and strengthen ties.
Using a combination of psychology, science, narrative, and a few of the author's signature scripts and out-of-the-box exercises, readers will learn:
- The three "affinities" that bring women together (and tear them apart)
- Scripts to navigate nine of the most challenging "friend types" (and how to know which one you are)
- The covert strategies women use to hurt each other (and how to avoid them)
- How to have a hard conversation with a friend (without losing the friendship)
- Surprising ways that women's people-pleasing delays platonic intimacy (and how to stop it)
- How to know if a friendship is worth saving (and what to do to recover)
- How to make (and deepen!) connections with other women
In a time when we are often encouraged to opt out of friendships at any sign of friction, Danielle Bayard Jackson is showing us how to opt in.
©2024 Danielle Bayard Jackson (P)2024 Hachette GoListeners also enjoyed...
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When it comes to adult friendships, we’re woefully inept: We barely manage to show up for our own commitments, let alone maintain our relationships. What’s more, we’re living in an uncharted social landscape with new conventions on how to relate - one where actual phone calls are reserved for Mom (if anyone), “dropping in” is unheard-of, and “flaking out” is routine.
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Just what I needed!
- By Gari Dozo on 04-29-23
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When Friendship Hurts
- How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound You
- By: Jan Yager Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Tanya Eby
- Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins
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We’ve all had friendships that have gone bad. Whether it takes the form of a simple yet inexplicable estrangement or a devastating betrayal, a failed friendship can make your life miserable, threaten your success at work or school, and even undermine your romantic relationships. Finally there is help. In When Friendship Hurts, Jan Yager, recognized internationally as a leading expert on friendship, explores what causes friendships to falter and explains how to mend them - or end them.
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Boring and patronizing
- By KDS on 11-17-22
By: Jan Yager Ph.D.
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Frientimacy
- How to Deepen Friendships for Lifelong Health and Happiness
- By: Shasta Nelson
- Narrated by: Robin Eller
- Length: 8 hrs and 31 mins
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In Frientimacy, award-winning speaker Shasta Nelson shows how anyone can form stronger, more meaningful friendships, marked by a level of trust she calls "frientimacy". Shasta explores the most common complaints and conflicts facing female friendships today, and lays out strategies for overcoming these pitfalls to create deeper, supportive relationships that last for the long-term.
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I didn't finish it, but I still recommend it
- By Emily on 10-21-17
By: Shasta Nelson
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Made for People
- Why We Drift into Loneliness and How to Fight for a Life of Friendship
- By: Justin Whitmel Earley
- Narrated by: Justin Earley
- Length: 5 hrs and 50 mins
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In Made for People—by bestselling author of The Habits of the Household—Justin Whitmel Earley explains why God made us to experience deep friendship and how we can cultivate them despite a culture of busyness, disconnection, and fear of vulnerability. Through personal stories, research, and biblical wisdom, Justin paints of a picture of God's design for "covenant friendships."
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Well written and MUCH needed
- By Amazon Customer on 08-25-23
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Find Your People
- Building Deep Community in a Lonely World
- By: Jennie Allen
- Narrated by: Jennie Allen
- Length: 5 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
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In a world that's both more connected and more isolating than ever before, we’re often tempted to do life alone, whether because we’re so busy or because relationships feel risky and hard. But science confirms that consistent, meaningful connection with others has a powerful impact on our well-being. We are meant to live known and loved. But so many are hiding behind emotional walls that we’re experiencing an epidemic of loneliness. In Find Your People, you’ll discover exactly how to dive into the deep end and experience the full wonder of community.
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Christian
- By E. Wood on 04-08-22
By: Jennie Allen
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Consider This
- Reflections for Finding Peace
- By: Nedra Glover Tawwab
- Narrated by: Nedra Glover Tawwab
- Length: 5 hrs and 4 mins
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Life comes at us fast, with new challenges to navigate at every turn. Millions of fans have embraced the fresh insights of bestselling author Nedra Glover Tawwab, a popular therapist who brings both expertise and a fresh perspective to the everyday struggles we all navigate in our relationships and within ourselves. In this inspiring book of daily insights, Nedra delivers food for thought, friendly reminders, and perspective shifts to help us stay true to who we are and what matters most.
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Love Dr. Tawwab and her narration.. didn’t realize this was a collection of Instagram stories.
- By Jessica Light on 11-18-24
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The PLAN
- Manage Your Time Like a Lazy Genius
- By: Kendra Adachi
- Narrated by: Kendra Adachi
- Length: 6 hrs
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Most time-management books leave you feeling inadequate, focusing on greatness and optimization. But what if you want to simply live your life without chasing productivity at every turn? Is there a way to manage your time without being at its mercy?
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Essay stretched to book length
- By R on 12-17-24
By: Kendra Adachi
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Super Agers
- By: Eric Topol
- Narrated by: Eric Topol
- Length: 14 hrs and 43 mins
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Dr. Topol’s unprecedented, evidenced-based guide is about how you and your family and friends can benefit from new treatments coming available at a faster rate than ever. From his unique position as a leader overseeing millions in research funding, Dr. Topol also explains the fundamental reasons—from semaglutides to AI—that we can be confident these breakthroughs will continue. Ninety-five percent of Americans over sixty have at least one chronic disease and almost as many have two. That is the essential problem this revolution is solving.
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A Dense but Illuminating Map to Longer, Healthier Lives
- By LD on 05-11-25
By: Eric Topol
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8 Rules of Love
- How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go
- By: Jay Shetty
- Narrated by: Jay Shetty
- Length: 10 hrs and 21 mins
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Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better than ever before. He shares insights on how to win or lose together, how to define love, and why you don’t break in a break-up. Inspired by Vedic wisdom and modern science, he tackles the entire relationship cycle, from first dates to moving in together to breaking up and starting over. And he shows us how to avoid falling for false promises and unfulfilling partners.
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Audio quality is lacking:(
- By Robert Scarberry on 01-31-23
By: Jay Shetty
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Cues
- Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication
- By: Vanessa Van Edwards
- Narrated by: Vanessa Van Edwards
- Length: 8 hrs and 1 min
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What makes someone charismatic? Why do some captivate a room, while others have trouble managing a small meeting? What makes some ideas spread, while other good ones fall by the wayside? If you have ever been interrupted in meetings, overlooked for career opportunities or had your ideas ignored, your cues may be the problem - and the solution.
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I wish I had chosen a hard copy of the book…
- By JenMcL on 07-14-22
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High Functioning
- Overcome Your Hidden Depression and Reclaim Your Joy
- By: Judith Joseph, Mel Robbins - foreword
- Narrated by: Judith Joseph, Mel Robbins
- Length: 6 hrs and 57 mins
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We're all familiar with what depression can look like, but there's another, lesser‑known face to this illness. High functioning depression (HFD) doesn't conform to the image of depression that typically comes to mind. As a result, people with HFD often have no idea why they are suffering, or what to do about it. In High Functioning, Dr. Judith Joseph reveals that what we’re feeling is not simply “negativity” or stress, and radically shifts the way those of us with HFD see ourselves, empowering us with five simple tools to reclaim our lives from this widespread yet poorly understood condition.
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Useful strategies you can implement immediately
- By Dara Krynickd on 04-17-25
By: Judith Joseph, and others
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Open When
- A Companion for Life’s Twists & Turns
- By: Julie Smith
- Narrated by: Julie Smith
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
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In this essential guide, Dr. Julie teaches her millions of readers and clients how to navigate life’s toughest occurrences while they’re happening, rather than moments or years after the fact. What if we can learn to harness our emotions and stay present so we can process and choose how to respond to a situation? Picking up where Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? leaves off, Dr. Julie shares the research-backed concepts and powerful skills we can use to weather our most vulnerable moments.
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My goodness, Dr J out did her first book.
- By Dan Brook on 01-07-25
By: Julie Smith
Excellent book on Friendship
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Fantastic book on female friendships
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This wonderful in-depth look into women friendships. Its has grabbed me and has helped me centre myself with the understanding why women’s friendships are so important and also very fragile at the same time.
This is a mandatory read for every woman, from young to senior.
I honestly believe that every teen girl or woman would greatly benefit from reading this book to understand women friendships.
This books takes you on a voyage of different friendships and issues that may occur throughout the life cycle of the friendship.
*I probably would have preferred less counselling scripts a ‘how to respond’ to situations or issues that may come up in friendships.
But nevertheless, a beautiful read/listen. The author’s silky vibrant voice is much appreciated. Bravo!
Every teen girl and woman should read this….
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Deeply well researched and fresh.
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The first part of the book delves into friendship dynamics and explains what makes the base of a good friendship.
The first part was okay, but I found the second part of the book to be the real gem that made the book worth buying: she goes into different types of friendship problems and offers explanations as to why the problems occur and ideas/scripts on how to handle them. It made me feel less alone in my friendship problems and gave me ideas on how to solve them.
She ends the book with advice on how and when to end friendships that aren’t working and how to make and keep new ones. That was also super useful and takes the book full circle.
She states in the beginning that the book is written from and for the perspective of a Western (US) culture. There are some cultural references and dynamics that people outside of that culture might not get, but I think it would still be helpful to women around the world. I’m from the US, but I live in Chile and can definitely apply what I’ve learned to my friendships here.
One aspect I loved was that Danielle narrated her own audiobook rather than hiring someone, I felt really connected to her words since I also follow her on Tiktok.
Definitely recommend this book to women, especially in their 20s and 30s, who want to improve their friendships. Thank you, Danielle!
Friendship Manual
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Great tips for working on friendships
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Honesty
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A book about women’s friendships
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I will be reading this again and sharing it with every woman I know.
Wow
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Well done!
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