
Big Dating Energy
How to Create Lasting Love by Tapping into Your Authentic Self
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Jeff Guenther
About this listen
Eight Rules of Love by Jay Shetty meets Tinx's The Shift for making modern relationships work for you, from a licensed professional therapist with two decades of experience and nearly 4 million followers on social media as @therapyjeff
Dating these days is hard, and no one understands that more than licensed therapist Jeff Guenther. Whether you’re looking for marriage or just a fling, exploring your sexuality or discovering your attachment style, or just trying to figure out which app is most worth your time, Jeff meets you exactly where you are; it’s no surprise that millions of viewers have found comfort in his posts. With humor, empathy, and an acknowledgment of the obstacles to finding healthy relationships, he has become the dating whisperer for the social media age.
Dating in the super-online, post-covid world is not for the weak, and people are confused and looking for guidance. In the vein of Unf*ck Yourself, The Love Prescription and How to Not Die Alone, Big Dating Energy is a funny, modern self-help title that tackles the opaque world of dating, empowering the listener with straight talk and an emphasis on authenticity.
Covering everything from first dates to red flags, ideal partner checklists to knowing when and how to end things, and even an exploration of the people and things you can blame for why your dating life hasn’t worked out so far, Big Dating Energy harnesses the charm and easy-to-use advice that nearly 4 million followers come to the @therapyjeff platform for daily. It will set you up to not only succeed at dating, but maybe even enjoy it along the way.
©2024 Jeff Guenther and Kate Happ (P)2024 VoraciousListeners also enjoyed...
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Critic reviews
"Raw, empowering, and refreshingly honest, Big Dating Energy will teach you to embrace you full self and date with confidence. With his signature no-nonsense, deeply compassionate style, Jeff offers practical tips and unwavering support to help you navigate the dating scene—and have fun while doing it."—Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone
Excellent listen
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Wise, practical, funny, and irreverent
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Maybe it’s better called “Big Relationship Energy” because it walks you through all the stages from meeting to the honeymoon phase to when-to-call-it-quits and how to get back out there.
If you know Therapy Jeff and are a fan, you recognize the title and know what a wild ride you’re getting into. The authors voice and humor is clear and consistent throughout.
10/10 and I’m going to be listening to this one again.
Just Keep Listening!
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Found this book to be very simplistic.
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Author just repeats preconceived notions and does not promote approaching relationships from a curious and non judgmental view.
3 stars because he is entertaining. But I do not recommend take his advice to heart.
Funny thou
Pretentious
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Dull
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Not an authentic book on dating.
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