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It's Not Me, It's You
- Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better.
- Narrated by: John Kim, Vanessa Bennett
- Length: 6 hrs and 43 mins
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Publisher's summary
Two therapists analyze their own relationship to help untangle the common and frustrating barriers many individuals face on the road to a happy, loving, rewarding partnership.
Many of the clients who end up in our respective therapist offices thought they were doing relationships right—avoiding the white picket fence, focusing on careers and experiences over babies and legally-binding documents, choosing someone after they “found themselves” first. However, like clockwork, around their early to mid-thirties, these clients show up at our door. Why? For the first time, they realize that they dislike their relationship and are frustrated by their partner but know that another break-up won’t fix things. They recognize a pattern of relationship misery that has them finally looking in the mirror asking, how do you make a relationship last?
It took us many relationships, our own inner self journey (which we’re still on), therapy, therapy school, and helping thousands of people with their relationships, to learn to have better ones ourselves. Vanessa woke up at 31, after ending an engagement and moving to Los Angeles. John thought he woke up at 35 after his divorce. But he didn’t truly wake up until he was pushing 40.
In It’s Not Me, It’s You, John and Vanessa dissect their own relationship to help readers figure out theirs: what their relationships were like in the past, what traumas they carried into the new relationship, and how they work on growing together to foster a healthy and long-term bond.
The surprising truth is falling in love is more about you than your partner. It’s more about challenge and growth than comfort and ease, and roots don’t grow from wishful thinking—they grow in the soil of communication, curiosity, patience, and understanding.
It’s Not Me, It’s You is for anyone looking for real advice on relationships that takes both sides into account and discusses relationships with the honesty and clarity we all need.
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Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?
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Just what I needed.
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Turn Your Mate into Your Soulmate
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SO Hard To Listen To!
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Frientimacy
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I didn't finish it, but I still recommend it
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If you feel stuck in a relationship, this book is a MUST!
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Must read if your on the verge of loosing it all!
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Not what you'd expect
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Life Coach Book NOT JUST FOR DATING
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fantastic
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- Anonymous User
- 10-07-22
Life changing!
I found this book when I needed it the most! Thank You! I realized I was wrong in so many things when it comes to the idea of love and a healthy relationship!
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- Randall Brandon
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Clarity!
Amazing reading! Life changing if your in a relationship and you want it to stand the test of time.
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- Amazon Customer
- 01-15-23
Best book to listen to to expand your view on a relationship
This book touched me. I found myself laughing out of relatability, yet retiring to listen when in need of strength, comfort and understanding in my own relationship. Each chapter is crafted to perfection. I love the intertwine between Vanessa’s and johns perspective. They would talk about a topic, give it structure, add their own relationship into it then give you guidance on how to work through it. It was raw, yet well composed. I found several similarities to how Vanessa and John are to my own relationship. I felt comforted in the arms of this book and wished it wouldn’t end. I hope to see Vanessa write more books as I allied with her perspective more than johns, but the togetherness and self understanding of faults and challenges is what made this book so pure and purposeful. I have recommended it to all of my friends in a relationship, because they talk about what isn’t talked about and adds reason to keep the boat afloat when you feel like you see holes. It’s honest and will listen to it more than once. Do yourself a favor and let yourself grow throughout this book!
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- Elizabeth B.
- 07-17-23
Best relationship & codependency book I’ve read in a long time
I loved how this book challenged me to in specific ways to look again at why I don’t speak up in my marriage. I also got a clearer understanding of the role love languages plays in my being haunted by exes & feeling unloved in my marriage. I appreciate the attachment book and love language book recommendations.
I wish there had been more resources for discerning emotional abuse, the confusion it creates and safe steps to take to own my codependency while not exposing myself unnecessarily to an unsafe person.
I feel the need to buy the hard copy version of the book to review it and to journal my responses to questions. And there was mention of a breakout box on codependent types that I think I missed in the audio version.
I has sworn off relationship books b/c I think I’ve tried everything, but this book actually fired me up to take a deeper look at my tendencies for the personal benefit it will bring me as well as to fulfill my obligation to my current and future relationships.
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- Jessica jenson
- 12-20-22
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makes you look at your everyday relationships in perspective. will listen again to use in my everyday life
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- Protector of the Unknown
- 10-25-22
Another Successful Book!
I have read most of John's books and it's great to have Vanessa speaking about her side of the story too! I hope there is a sequel to this book! Thank you for all that you do!
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- Amazon Customer
- 12-28-23
Will read again!
This book does such a good job looking at a lot of key relationship elements. There is a lot to take away for both friendships and romantic relationships. I wanted to keep reading but found myself purposely putting the book down to critically think about the information being provided. Great read!
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- Ubaldo C.
- 01-29-23
If you want an honest look at love
It’s a must read if you are really trying to understand what it takes for a relationship to succeed
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- Amazon Customer
- 10-17-22
Great book for relationships!!
I loved it! I couldn't get thru it fast enough and the topics were helpful. definitely a great read!
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- Tammy Hayes
- 03-09-23
Spot on & Helpful!
Love the back and forth, “he says-she says” style of this audible! I especially grew from the part on attachment styles & will look for more on the book they recommended! Very quick and insightful read/listen!
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