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  • The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself

  • By: Dr. Mike Bechtle
  • Narrated by: Mike Bechtle
  • Length: 5 hrs and 17 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (43 ratings)

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The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself

By: Dr. Mike Bechtle
Narrated by: Mike Bechtle
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We all want other people to like us and think well of us. But when we depend on the praise, admiration, or appreciation of others for our sense of self-worth, we become trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of people-pleasing relationships where we always give and rarely receive. The most common advice we hear - Start putting your own needs first! - doesn't work, because we do love helping other people!

Thankfully, the solution to the people pleaser's "problem" isn't to fundamentally change who you are - it's to fundamentally change where you find your worth. In this freeing book, Dr. Mike Bechtle shows you stop letting your fears of rejection, criticism, invisibility, or inadequacy drive your actions and start rebuilding your sense of self-worth from the inside out. When you do, you'll discover that what you once thought of as a struggle is actually a strength.

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Great book very helpful!!!

I really wish I had read this book in my twenties! It was very helpful. I took a lot away from it.

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Loved it!

It came at a pivotal time for me. I’ve been needing to make some changes and this book has been helping me to see clearly what are my motives behind each decision I make. I’m going to buy the actual book to go through it again. This will be a process but I’m grateful for the help to see more clearly.

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Life changing

I'm reading again today. It was like it was straight up written for me. Now to do the work. Thanks for this book!!!

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It is a good book.
That was good information. I think I would recommend it to be worthwhile to read.


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Worth the Listen or Read!

The author lists some very practical tips for people pleasers! I will be purchasing the actual paperback after listening to the Audible version.

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It should be noted that this is good for business

The business aspects in the closing chapters for either entrepreneurship or sales are very clear and encouraging.
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So helpful!!

Loved this positive, encouraging and resourceful book. It gives insight to the challenges and strengths of a people pleaser and then a plan to bring about healthy change and perspective! I am sure I will be returning to the material to listen again as change is implemented!

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l loved it

It's been the first book i've listed to from this author and I love it. There is a lot of powerful information and advise here. I recommend this book. :)

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Fantastic read for someone wanting to change

Take the time to read this audible. The book is so insightful and will push you to change day by day.

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worth the read

Was a good read/listen. insightful and relative. Will listen again. Thanks fir sharing your knowledge.

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