How to Be an Imperfectionist: The New Way to Self-Acceptance, Fearless Living, and Freedom from Perfectionism
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Daniel Penz
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Stephen Guise
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I remember when I aimed for perfect workouts: 30 minutes was the minimum.
I was in lousy shape.
I remember when I aimed for perfect dating: it couldn't be awkward, forced, or uncertain.
I didn't talk to women I was interested in.
I remember when I aimed for perfect writing: I wanted 1,000+ words of quality material per day.
I played video games instead.
I carefully avoided mistakes, endlessly ruminated about what I didn't do, and what I did do wasn't enough.
Then, I became an imperfectionist.
Everything changed. I had fun stories to tell, like the lesbian pizza incident and the most nervous "Hi" ever spoken by a human being. I learned more. I laughed more. I lived more.
I got in great shape, read more books, and improved my social skills. I wrote Mini Habits, which is being translated into a dozen languages.
I found I could mess up and still win.
Perfectionism is a naturally limiting mindset. For example, kids are taught to color inside the lines, and any color outside the lines is considered a mistake that must be corrected. Imperfectionism frees us to live outside the lines, where possibilities are infinite, mistakes are allowed, and self-judgment is minimal.
While the freedom of imperfectionism is impactful, it does not preclude us from having problems. Imperfectionists aren't so ironic as to have perfect lives, they're just happier, healthier, and more productive at doing what matters.
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One afternoon - after another failed attempt to get motivated to exercise - I (accidentally) started my first mini habit. I initially committed to do one push-up, and it turned into a full workout. I was shocked. This "stupid idea" wasn't supposed to work. I was shocked again when my success with this strategy continued for months (and to this day). I had to consider that maybe I wasn't the problem in those 10 years of mediocre results. Maybe it was my prior strategies that were ineffective, despite being oft-repeated as "the way to change" in countless books.
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Breaks Things Down Into Tiny Do-able Bits
- By Sara on 11-26-14
By: Stephen Guise
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The Anxious Perfectionist
- How to Manage Perfectionism-Driven Anxiety Using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
- By: Clarissa W. Ong PhD, Michael P. Twohig PhD, Randy O. Frost PhD - foreword
- Narrated by: Erin deWard
- Length: 5 hrs and 32 mins
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The Anxious Perfectionist shines a much-needed light on the hidden costs of "being the best," and offers essential skills based in acceptance and commitment therapy to help you cope with the anxiety that is driven by your perfectionism. You'll learn how your "need to be perfect" can actually hinder your productivity and keep you from reaching your goals. You'll also learn skills to help you gain distance from negative self-talk, let go of unhelpful and self-limiting labels, and give yourself permission to make mistakes while still honoring your aspirations.
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Game Changer
- By Christina on 12-01-22
By: Clarissa W. Ong PhD, and others
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When Perfect Isn't Good Enough (Second Edition)
- Strategies for Coping with Perfectionism
- By: Martin M. Antony PhD, Richard P. Swinson MD
- Narrated by: Mike Chamberlain
- Length: 8 hrs and 55 mins
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In this fully revised and updated second edition of When Perfect Isn't Good Enough, you'll discover the root cause of your perfectionism, explore the impact of perfectionism on your life, and find new, proven-effective coping skills to help you overcome your anxiety about making mistakes. This guide also includes tips for dealing with other perfectionists and discussions about how perfectionism is linked to worry, depression, anger, social anxiety, and body image.
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Great help
- By Phillip on 12-13-24
By: Martin M. Antony PhD, and others
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The Magic of Momentum
- Escape Any Rut. Build Winning Streaks. Use Forward Motion to Change the Trajectory of Your Life
- By: Stephen Guise
- Narrated by: George Acevedo
- Length: 4 hrs and 51 mins
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Your power to change one moment can create life-changing momentum. In The Magic of Momentum, international best-selling author Stephen Guise reveals how momentum works differently in our behavior and lives than it does in other areas. Behavioral momentum, however, is far more powerful than other forms of momentum. It’s not the “string of successes” we often perceive it to be. Behavioral momentum is layered and exponential because every action you take changes how your brain interprets that behavior.
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A great book, whether or not you have read Guise’s previous work
- By Bigkids on 05-09-22
By: Stephen Guise
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Elastic Habits
- How to Create Smarter Habits That Adapt to Your Day
- By: Stephen Guise
- Narrated by: Daniel Penz
- Length: 6 hrs and 36 mins
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We try our best to be consistent, but some days are better than others. Inevitably, we fail when "life happens", because each day we try to hit the same targets regardless of the situations we face. How, then, can we make our habits more resilient to the turbulence of life? By making them elastic. If you’re tired of the repetitive and exhausting grind to develop good habits, it’s time to give your habits the refreshing superpower of elasticity. Listen to Elastic Habits now, and you’ll soon discover the life-changing difference of good habits that adapt to your day.
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A good system, but more wordy than it needs to be
- By LaffingKat on 01-03-20
By: Stephen Guise
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You Are Not Lazy, You Are a Perfectionist
- Laziness Is Not a Part of You When Anxiety Strikes! Know Why Your Deadlines Slip Away and Gradually Wipe Out the Perfectionism-Procrastination Cycles
- By: J.C. Secche
- Narrated by: Keith L. O'Brien
- Length: 3 hrs and 32 mins
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Do ideas race in your head, one competing to outdo the other in an infinite loop, preventing you from getting to the action stage? Do you intend to do many projects to change the world but find yourself unable to get started even on the first one in your long, winding to-do list? I got you right this time! You are not lazy, you are a perfectionist! Be embarrassed no more after today as your never-ending piles of tasks are going to be neatly checked and tucked away. No more sweating, snoozing, and sabotaging, for smiling is the new norm!
By: J.C. Secche
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Mini Habits
- Smaller Habits, Bigger Results
- By: Stephen Guise
- Narrated by: Daniel Penz
- Length: 3 hrs and 40 mins
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One afternoon - after another failed attempt to get motivated to exercise - I (accidentally) started my first mini habit. I initially committed to do one push-up, and it turned into a full workout. I was shocked. This "stupid idea" wasn't supposed to work. I was shocked again when my success with this strategy continued for months (and to this day). I had to consider that maybe I wasn't the problem in those 10 years of mediocre results. Maybe it was my prior strategies that were ineffective, despite being oft-repeated as "the way to change" in countless books.
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Breaks Things Down Into Tiny Do-able Bits
- By Sara on 11-26-14
By: Stephen Guise
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The Anxious Perfectionist
- How to Manage Perfectionism-Driven Anxiety Using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
- By: Clarissa W. Ong PhD, Michael P. Twohig PhD, Randy O. Frost PhD - foreword
- Narrated by: Erin deWard
- Length: 5 hrs and 32 mins
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The Anxious Perfectionist shines a much-needed light on the hidden costs of "being the best," and offers essential skills based in acceptance and commitment therapy to help you cope with the anxiety that is driven by your perfectionism. You'll learn how your "need to be perfect" can actually hinder your productivity and keep you from reaching your goals. You'll also learn skills to help you gain distance from negative self-talk, let go of unhelpful and self-limiting labels, and give yourself permission to make mistakes while still honoring your aspirations.
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Game Changer
- By Christina on 12-01-22
By: Clarissa W. Ong PhD, and others
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When Perfect Isn't Good Enough (Second Edition)
- Strategies for Coping with Perfectionism
- By: Martin M. Antony PhD, Richard P. Swinson MD
- Narrated by: Mike Chamberlain
- Length: 8 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
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In this fully revised and updated second edition of When Perfect Isn't Good Enough, you'll discover the root cause of your perfectionism, explore the impact of perfectionism on your life, and find new, proven-effective coping skills to help you overcome your anxiety about making mistakes. This guide also includes tips for dealing with other perfectionists and discussions about how perfectionism is linked to worry, depression, anger, social anxiety, and body image.
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Great help
- By Phillip on 12-13-24
By: Martin M. Antony PhD, and others
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The Magic of Momentum
- Escape Any Rut. Build Winning Streaks. Use Forward Motion to Change the Trajectory of Your Life
- By: Stephen Guise
- Narrated by: George Acevedo
- Length: 4 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
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Your power to change one moment can create life-changing momentum. In The Magic of Momentum, international best-selling author Stephen Guise reveals how momentum works differently in our behavior and lives than it does in other areas. Behavioral momentum, however, is far more powerful than other forms of momentum. It’s not the “string of successes” we often perceive it to be. Behavioral momentum is layered and exponential because every action you take changes how your brain interprets that behavior.
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A great book, whether or not you have read Guise’s previous work
- By Bigkids on 05-09-22
By: Stephen Guise
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Elastic Habits
- How to Create Smarter Habits That Adapt to Your Day
- By: Stephen Guise
- Narrated by: Daniel Penz
- Length: 6 hrs and 36 mins
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We try our best to be consistent, but some days are better than others. Inevitably, we fail when "life happens", because each day we try to hit the same targets regardless of the situations we face. How, then, can we make our habits more resilient to the turbulence of life? By making them elastic. If you’re tired of the repetitive and exhausting grind to develop good habits, it’s time to give your habits the refreshing superpower of elasticity. Listen to Elastic Habits now, and you’ll soon discover the life-changing difference of good habits that adapt to your day.
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A good system, but more wordy than it needs to be
- By LaffingKat on 01-03-20
By: Stephen Guise
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You Are Not Lazy, You Are a Perfectionist
- Laziness Is Not a Part of You When Anxiety Strikes! Know Why Your Deadlines Slip Away and Gradually Wipe Out the Perfectionism-Procrastination Cycles
- By: J.C. Secche
- Narrated by: Keith L. O'Brien
- Length: 3 hrs and 32 mins
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Do ideas race in your head, one competing to outdo the other in an infinite loop, preventing you from getting to the action stage? Do you intend to do many projects to change the world but find yourself unable to get started even on the first one in your long, winding to-do list? I got you right this time! You are not lazy, you are a perfectionist! Be embarrassed no more after today as your never-ending piles of tasks are going to be neatly checked and tucked away. No more sweating, snoozing, and sabotaging, for smiling is the new norm!
By: J.C. Secche
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How to Deal with Angry People
- 10 Strategies for Facing Anger at Home, at Work and in the Street
- By: Dr Ryan Martin
- Narrated by: Dr Ryan Martin
- Length: 6 hrs and 5 mins
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Whether the confrontations are taking place at home, at work or online, the emotional toll of dealing with an angry person day-in day-out can be huge. As we often can't cut ourselves off from these angry people (although terminating the relationship is an option that’s explored), this audiobook draws on the author's years of research and clinical practice to help listeners manage potentially explosive situations for the best possible outcomes. This audiobook reveals the psychological factors that underpin an angry personality, offers ten key strategies for dealing with angry people.
By: Dr Ryan Martin
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Never Good Enough
- How to Use Perfectionism to Your Advantage Without Letting It Ruin Your Life
- By: Monica Ramirez Basco PhD
- Narrated by: Marguerite Gavin
- Length: 10 hrs and 18 mins
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In Never Good Enough, Dr. Basco helps you understand why you feel driven to get things “just right” and shows you how to make the best of your perfectionism. Filled with practical advice, encouragement, and strategies for self-discovery, this invaluable guide includes Dr. Basco’s own 30-question self-test that will help you recognize and manage the negative side of your perfectionism. You'll learn how to stop the struggle with yourself and others, how to evaluate your worth and performance in life, and how to replace the pursuit of perfection with peace of mind.
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not really meant for audio
- By nathan lottes on 06-23-21
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Overcoming Perfectionism Anxiety and Indecision
- A Brilliant but Imperfect Guide to Releasing Your Inner Achiever
- By: Cross Border Books
- Narrated by: Dan Hamel
- Length: 3 hrs and 26 mins
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Overcoming Perfection, Anxiety, and Indecision is a comprehensive, easy-to-understand guide that doesn’t just help you accept that failures pave the way to the greatest successes, but teaches you how to gain the most from every misstep!
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Overcoming Perfectionism, 2nd Edition
- A Self-Help Guide Using Scientifically Supported Cognitive Behavioural Techniques
- By: Roz Shafran, Sarah Egan, Tracey Wade
- Narrated by: Amy Lyddon, Steph Bower
- Length: 8 hrs and 33 mins
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Striving for something can be a healthy and positive attribute; it's good to aim high. But sometimes whatever we do just isn't good enough; we want to be too perfect and start setting unrealistic goals. Such high levels of perfectionism, often driven by low self-esteem, can turn against success and develop into unhealthy obsession, triggering serious mental-health problems, such as anxiety, depression and eating disorders.
By: Roz Shafran, and others
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The Perfection Trap
- Embracing the Power of Good Enough
- By: Thomas Curran
- Narrated by: Sid Sagar
- Length: 7 hrs and 55 mins
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Today, burnout and depression are at record levels, driven by a combination of intense workplace competition, oppressively ubiquitous social media encouraging comparisons with others, the quest for elite credentials, and helicopter parenting. Society continually broadcasts the need to want more, and to be perfect. Gathering a wide range of contemporary evidence, Curran calls for both introspection and broader, societal change. He shows what we can do as individuals to resist the modern-day pressure to be perfect, and in so doing, win for ourselves a more purposeful and contented life.
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The Answers I Didn’t Know I Needed
- By John on 08-14-23
By: Thomas Curran
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Being at Your Best When Your Kids Are at Their Worst
- Practical Compassion in Parenting
- By: Kim John Payne MED
- Narrated by: Paul Brion
- Length: 4 hrs and 28 mins
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When children "push our buttons", we find ourselves reacting in ways that are far from our principles, often further inflaming a situation. When our children are at their worst, they need us to be at our best - or as close to it as we can be. Educator and family counselor Kim John Payne, author of Simplicity Parenting, offers techniques that simply and directly shift these damaging patterns in communication and parental behavior.
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Real useful guidance for parents-a MUST read
- By Sarah on 05-01-22
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I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn’t)
- Telling the Truth about Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power
- By: Brené Brown
- Narrated by: Lauren Fortgang
- Length: 10 hrs and 44 mins
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Based on seven years of ground-breaking research and hundreds of interviews, I Thought It Was Just Me shines a long-overdue light on an important truth: Our imperfections are what connect us to each other and to our humanity. Our vulnerabilities are not weaknesses; they are powerful reminders to keep our hearts and minds open to the reality that we're all in this together.
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I'm sure its great if you are a mother ....
- By Leslie A Hill on 08-09-11
By: Brené Brown
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Mini Habits for Weight Loss
- Stop Dieting. Form New Habits. Change Your Lifestyle Without Suffering.
- By: Stephen Guise
- Narrated by: Daniel Penz
- Length: 10 hrs and 15 mins
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You will never diet again. Say goodbye to calorie counting, restrictive food bans, or other forced behaviors. In Mini Habits for Weight Loss, you will learn how to lose weight naturally in the precise way your body and brain are meant to change.
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Skip the first half!
- By Cecil on 06-02-17
By: Stephen Guise
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Think Like Amazon
- 50 1/2 Ideas to Become a Digital Leader
- By: John Rossman
- Narrated by: Jeff Cummings, John Rossman
- Length: 9 hrs and 10 mins
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“What would Jeff do?” Since leaving Amazon to advise start-ups and corporations, John Rossman has been asked this question countless times by executives who want to know “the secret” behind Amazon’s historic success. In this step-by-step guide, he provides 50½ answers drawn from his experience as an Amazon executive - and shows today’s business leaders how to think like Amazon, strategize like Bezos, and beat the competition like nobody’s business.
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A must read if you really want to innovate like Amazon
- By Npino on 05-19-19
By: John Rossman
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Die 1%-Methode – Minimale Veränderung, maximale Wirkung
- Mit kleinen Gewohnheiten jedes Ziel erreichen
- By: James Clear
- Narrated by: Oliver Brod
- Length: 7 hrs and 52 mins
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Der Welterfolg zum Trendthema "Micro Habits"! Das Geheimnis des Erfolgs: "Die 1%-Methode". Sie liefert das nötige Handwerkszeug, mit dem Sie jedes Ziel erreichen. James Clear, erfolgreicher Coach und einer der führenden Experten für Gewohnheitsbildung, zeigt praktische Strategien, mit denen Sie jeden Tag etwas besser werden bei dem, was Sie sich vornehmen. Seine Methode greift auf Erkenntnisse aus Biologie, Psychologie und Neurowissenschaften zurück und funktioniert in allen Lebensbereichen.
By: James Clear
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Overcoming Perfectionism
- How to Let Go of Self-Criticism, Build Self-Esteem, and Find Balance
- By: Clive Reed
- Narrated by: Austin R. Stoler
- Length: 2 hrs and 25 mins
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Perfectionism is a character or personality trait that causes life to feel like a never-ending report card. A perfectionist feels as if they are being forever graded on their accomplishments, appearance, organization, and just about everything else. This audiobook explores the ways in which perfection can have positive and motivational impacts, like providing the drive to overcome adversity or achieve certain goals.
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A BIG PACKAGE OF SELF ESTEEM AND SELF GROWTH
- By Anonymous User on 07-21-20
By: Clive Reed
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The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control
- A Path to Peace and Power
- By: Katherine Morgan Schafler
- Narrated by: Katherine Morgan Schafler
- Length: 10 hrs and 29 mins
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We’ve been looking at perfectionism all wrong. As psychotherapist and former on-site therapist at Google Katherine Morgan Schafler argues in The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control, you don’t have to stop being a perfectionist to be healthy. For women who are sick of being given the generic advice to “find balance,” a new approach has arrived.
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The Life Changing Book I didn’t know I needed
- By S. RINCON on 04-23-23
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- MacDer
- 11-30-20
Just what I needed
This book was just what I needed during a time in my life where I'm feeling stuck and insecure. I never knew how much perfectionist tendencies limited my freedom, success and happiness. The content was laid out in a way that made sense and was useful and practical. I listened twice so that I could just digest the information the first time without feeling pressure to do the action steps all in one. I am now ready to take the necessary steps to make changes in my life. I know there is no one smoking gun but this really made me think of goals, progress, success and failure in a different light. The narration was also very good (one of the things that's hit or miss with audible). I have recommended this book to several people already.
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- Jp
- 01-25-17
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As someone who has only recently realized that perfectionism is causing a lot of issues in my life, this book has been very helpful in giving me some insight and understanding as well as concrete solutions to counteract this detrimental way of thinking.
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- Emily Honeycutt
- 04-21-16
One of the best self-help books I've ever read!
I'm a writer and this book actually gives me the tools to help me with my struggles with perfectionism, procrastination, rumination and fear. Rather than just motivation or positive thinking, this book provides dozens of easy, effective, real-world techniques such as beginning mini habits, setting timers and adjusting your standards. Taking action is actually the solution to rumination. I'll be listening to this one over and over again. I'll definitely get Stephen's other book, Mini-Habits, too. I also recommend Wayne Dyer's book, Excuses Begone! to anyone dealing with perfectionism. I've listened to it several times and while he doesn't offer the techniques that Stephen does, it is helpful in changing your mindset. Thanks so much, Stephen, for writing a life-changing book!
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- Deborah Miller
- 06-22-20
Coaching through insecurities
Content was not as concise as I would've liked, but fabulously successful nonetheless on altering my perspective on perfectionism. By listening to this audiobook, I became aware of the insecurities perfectionism can stem from. Thanks, Stephen Guise, for making imperfectionism attractive and achievable with your coaching.
Stephen Guise's stories referring to Mini Habits were one of the things I found most helpful.
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- Holly Timpson
- 09-07-22
My teenager loved it!
I listened to this book with my teenage son. Not only did l love it and find it useful and entertaining he did too! lt was interesting and gave great ideas and explanations. Things I long for my son to know. I am extremely grateful for the help this book gave to me and him!
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- vijayanand
- 01-04-18
Excellent book. Narration could improve.
Love the content. I find the narration annoying at places where the narrator sounds too cheerful when it is not required and whiny when describing the challenges with waking up in the morning.
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- Kimberly Duede
- 07-18-18
Definitely worth a listen!
I was taking notes during the entire book! Lots of good strategies and life changing advice!
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- Pris Guti
- 07-14-17
Great book for the perfectionist problem!
really enjoyed the book. So much helpful info and advice. I put into practice and made a lot of progress in places i was stuck before! Very happy with it!!
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- Mark Miles
- 09-10-18
Very helpful!
This book imparts a great attitude of kindness and self-acceptance. As well as having many excellent ideas and strategies to experiment with.
I just finished my first read through. For my second I'm planning to take notes of all the liberating thoughts and action that I want to try.
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- Anonymous User
- 03-25-22
This is really sound advice
loved the book, the message and the narrator. Will defo also read the mini habit one :)
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