
How to Listen, Hear, and Validate
Break Through Invisible Barriers and Transform Your Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 11)
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Russell Newton
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Patrick King
About this listen
Cultivate deep connections wherever you go. Break down conflict, misunderstanding, and loneliness.
Healthy relationships involve our feelings being heard, understood, and validated. Unfortunately, this is the exception rather than the rule. Are you doing it wrong and alienating people versus comforting them? Find out how to walk this fine line.
Uncover the biggest obstacle to the intimate, healthy relationships that we desire and deserve.
How to Listen, Hear, and Validate is all about our top communication struggle - our tendency to react instead of respond, and forget that our goal is to build bridges rather than walls. You’ll learn what you’ve been doing wrong, and why your efforts at getting closer to people - in deep or light manners - have failed. You’ll learn actionable techniques and frameworks to have the most productive conversations of your life - ones that will walk away with people praising how empathetic you are.
Most importantly, you will gain profound insights on how to reprogram yourself into a natural communicator.
No more unresolved issues, struggles to get close, or failures from ineffective communication.
Patrick King is an internationally best-selling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. His struggles in his early relationships has inspired him to unravel practical ways to cultivate meaningful, reciprocative interactions.
Establish vulnerable, fulfilling and satisfying relationships.
- The big mistakes when we "listen" to others
- How to structure a style for effective validation and empathy
- Scripts to validate others, to know exactly what to say
- Simple tactics to make others feel loved and seen
- How to use empathetic communication and active listening techniques
Did you know? At the heart of most communication problems is a lack of validation.
Are we truly paying attention to the messages others are conveying, or are we just waiting for our turn to speak? Are we listening to reply, or listening to hear? After applying the proven techniques from this book, you’ll be able to increase love, respect and satisfaction to your relationship. You’ll become the person everyone wants in their life.
Connect deeper and better. Raise the standard for your relationships.
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Being in a relationship without knowing how to share your feelings and receive your partner’s feelings in useful ways is like jumping into a pool without knowing how to swim. You can flail around all you want, but it’s not going to keep you afloat for very long—you need to be able to move in any direction at will. Like swimming, knowing how to share your feelings and respond to your partner's feelings will move your relationship in the direction you want: toward more intimacy, closeness, connection, and trust.
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Marriage saving!
- By J Keegan on 02-07-23
By: Nic Saluppo
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You're Not Listening
- What You're Missing and Why It Matters
- By: Kate Murphy
- Narrated by: Kate Murphy
- Length: 6 hrs and 31 mins
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At work, we’re taught to lead the conversation. On social media, we shape our personal narratives. At parties, we talk over one another. So do our politicians. We’re not listening. And no one is listening to us. Despite living in a world where technology allows constant digital communication and opportunities to connect, it seems no one is really listening or even knows how. And it’s making us lonelier, more isolated, and less tolerant than ever before. A listener by trade, New York Times contributor Kate Murphy wanted to know how we got here.
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Very Interesting and Helpful
- By Bike49038 on 02-17-20
By: Kate Murphy
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The Power of Listening: How to Improve Relationships by Becoming an Active Listener
- By: Damian Blair
- Narrated by: John Wilkinson
- Length: 4 hrs and 3 mins
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Have you ever found yourself in the middle of an argument with someone who just isn’t getting it? Most of us miss out on the visual emotive cues we see during direct interpersonal communication. Without these important context clues, we struggle to grasp the intent of the messenger and often the real meaning of the message. To make matters worse, our dependence on instant communication, like text messaging and email, has resulted in forgetting how to talk to one another in person.
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I am inspired
- By Rachel D. Perez on 09-16-21
By: Damian Blair
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Train Your Empathy
- How to Cultivate the Single Most Important Relationship Skill
- By: Patrick King
- Narrated by: Russell Newton
- Length: 4 hrs and 35 mins
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Train Your Empathy is an extreme deep dive into the topic of what makes people connect. It’s not small talk or even a sense of humor—only empathy makes people truly feel safe, heard, and yearning for more.
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Very informative
- By Joe B. on 07-06-24
By: Patrick King
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4 Essential Keys to Effective Communication in Love, Life, Work - Anywhere!
- A How-To Guide for Practicing the Empathic Listening, Speaking, and Dialogue Skills to Achieve Relationship Success
- By: Bento C. Leal III
- Narrated by: Troy W. Hudson
- Length: 2 hrs and 14 mins
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4 Essential Keys to Effective Communication in Love, Life, Work--Anywhere! is an excellent 'How-To Guide' teaching some of the key skills that will help you identify and overcome communication barriers and achieve relationship success with the important people in your life--your spouse or partner, child or children, parents, siblings, friends, co-workers, customers--everyone!
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Author self-glorifies, then the book ends
- By Zanita on 05-14-18
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Communication in Marriage
- How to Communicate with Your Spouse Without Fighting
- By: Marcus Kusi, Ashley Kusi
- Narrated by: Greg Zarcone
- Length: 2 hrs and 38 mins
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Do you find it difficult communicating with your spouse? Are you tired of arguing and fighting with your spouse whenever you try to communicate? Is your spouse not talking to you anymore? You are not alone. Many couples (including us) have had to deal with these communication problems at some point in marriage, and it's not fun! But don't worry. No matter what communication problems you struggle with, you can learn how to communicate effectively with your spouse today.
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not what I expected
- By 77aniem on 12-19-17
By: Marcus Kusi, and others
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How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth
- Make People Reveal Their True Thoughts and Intentions Without Them Even Knowing It (How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 12)
- By: Patrick King
- Narrated by: Russell Newton
- Length: 3 hrs and 42 mins
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How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth turns you into an expert reader of intentions, behavior, thoughts, and emotions. The tips in this book are used by professionals to extract valuable knowledge worth millions of dollars. You’ll learn about body language, speed-reading, thin-slicing, and every other technique that has been scientifically proven. The goal of this book is to arm you with tools to uniquely understand and peel back the layers of people before they even know it. No one will be a puzzle to you anymore.
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Get down to business
- By Marvin Small on 09-21-24
By: Patrick King
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Outsmart Negative Thinking
- Simple Mindfulness Methods to Control Negative Thoughts, Stop Anxiety, & Finally Experience Happiness
- By: Nic Saluppo
- Narrated by: Dustin Taber
- Length: 2 hrs and 39 mins
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Negative thinking—it seems to have no end. The question is, can anything be done about it? Negative thinking is a self-perpetuating mechanism. Negative thinking fuels more negative thinking, which in turn fuels even more. Around and around it goes, never losing steam or momentum. All the while, you’re utterly fatigued and exhausted. Ten years can go by, and the mind-numbing cycle still will not have stopped. Because it’s self-sustaining, negative thinking only grows stronger with each passing month, year, and decade. Can it be stopped?
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Practical, real, useable, helpful
- By Sissa on 02-03-25
By: Nic Saluppo
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The Art of Witty Banter: Be Clever, Quick, & Magnetic (2nd Edition)
- How to Be More Likable and Charismatic, Book 8
- By: Patrick King
- Narrated by: Russell Newton
- Length: 3 hrs and 47 mins
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The Art of Witty Banter examines the art, nuance, and mechanics of banter and charm to make you a witty comeback machine, the likes of which your friends have never seen. You’ll be able to handle, defend, disarm, and engage others in a way that makes you comfortable and confident with each growing day.
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“Women should be seen and not heard”
- By Alyssa Boisson on 01-05-22
By: Patrick King
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Improve Your People Skills: Build and Manage Relationships, Communicate Effectively, Understand Others, and Become the Ultimate People Person
- By: Patrick King
- Narrated by: Gregory Sutton
- Length: 3 hrs and 1 min
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If you (1) have trouble connecting with people beyond small talk or (2) are often left speechless and dumbfounded on how to handle certain people and situations, that feeling of dread isn't something you have to live with. Improve Your People Skills is your key to social intelligence and the better relationships to enrich your life that will inevitably follow.
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This book is kind of mean
- By yelhsa on 04-23-20
By: Patrick King
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Healthy Communication with Your Partner
- Discover the Benefits of Communicating with Emotional Intelligence, Empathy, & Effective Listening Skills to Turn Conflict Into Connection
- By: Amanda Thomas
- Narrated by: Courtney Pinkerton
- Length: 3 hrs and 29 mins
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Whether you're starting a new relationship, finding your way back from headaches and heartaches, or just want to deepen your connection, this book will help equip and empower you. Take the first step in transforming your relationship. Here you'll find helpful and empowering tips that will help you cultivate a stronger connection with your partner. With strategies for understanding yourself and taking responsibility for how you show up, these valuable lessons will lead to an even better bond between you and your partner.
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Communicating truth
- By Kristine D. on 11-05-23
By: Amanda Thomas
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How to Listen
- Discover the Hidden Key to Better Communication
- By: Oscar Trimboli
- Narrated by: Oscar Trimboli
- Length: 7 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
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At a time when we are more technologically linked than ever, our conversations have never been more distracted and disconnected—because most don’t know how to truly listen. The result? You constantly fight to be “heard” over all the noise and distraction. In How to Listen, Oscar Trimboli, host of the Apple-award-winning podcast Deep Listening, shows you how to unlock your listening superpowers. Trimboli shares practical and pragmatic insights to help you notice when you aren’t listening—and what to do about it.
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A transformative journey
- By Amazon Customer on 11-03-22
By: Oscar Trimboli
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Principles of Likability: Skills for a Memorable First Impression, Captivating Presence, and Instant Friendships
- By: Patrick King
- Narrated by: Steve Campbell
- Length: 3 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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Small changes for big results in your social life, presence, and relationships. Learn how to be captivating, memorable, and magnetic. Likability is one of the most important traits you’ll ever learn. It’s more important than your intelligence, looks, status, wealth, prestige, or education. Likability is the true currency of life. Do you seem to fade from people’s memory as soon as the conversation ends? Banish those feelings of rejection and dejection.
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really enjoyed this book
- By Angela on 05-06-19
By: Patrick King
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- Adam S.
- 06-17-21
Incredible
If you love someone, and want to show them you love them, don't let this book go by.
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- Brian Miller
- 03-22-25
Just what I needed
Easy to follow steps and examples. I can’t wait to practice on everyone I talk to.
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- Allison
- 12-27-23
Essential relationship skills
This book is a succinct instruction manual on how to be a great conversation partner and it has already improved understanding in my relationships.
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- Shar
- 04-23-23
helpful
Raised by a narc mother and a deaf semi absent father, I developed my dads listening skills and my moms validating skill. I am very sensitive and feel disconnected from social settings. I'm reading a list of his books to help me better myself. it does bring comfort to me listening because it's giving great examples I had never known I needed to work on. How can one work on something if they don't know. Great material.
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- laura
- 08-11-21
Patrick knows his stuff.
I felt as if I were in a refresher class for therapists. Delivered very friendly and precisely.
my job allows me to actively listen to my clients
and this was a great help. ( as far a listening to a few Friends of mine A Tremendous help.)
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- Anonymous User
- 06-19-23
Great book
It’s good for those who want to improve their emotional intelligence and overall communication with people.
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- D. Griffin
- 10-25-23
I enjoyed this book very much in town the top useful
This was an excellent discussion, and l enjoy the book very much. The author did an excellent job discussing the topic review this book and audio again taking more details notes on how to put the focus of the book into action.
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- Carol W
- 06-07-21
Very helpful book
I found this book when looking for books on this exact subject. I found it helpful and appreciate so much what is being communicated. I am going to have all my kids listen to this for school next year since we will be homeschooling. I am going to try and put into practice what is taught in this book. I highly recommend it for couples as well. LIstening, Hearing, and Validating will only bring you closer and help as you work through those issues that will arrise.
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- FearmaKY
- 06-04-22
Open mind
This book really open my mind about understanding others without judging them and knowing I’m not agreeing with them in the same time . Loved
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- Bradford House
- 09-24-24
Saving Marriages
Had this book for awhile and just didn't finish it. got into an argument with my wife where I walked away and considered divorce as an option next year she doesn't change. I prayed about it and told God if he wants this marriage to work something needs to change or one of us will be out very soon. I then read this book entirely. I'll let you know if it helped or not in reality 6 months from now but as far as today I'll say with God's grace, and apply this book, maybe we can make it till death due us part.
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