The Anger Trap
Free Yourself from the Frustrations that Sabotage Your Life
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Kirby Heybourne
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It's easy to identify rage in people who lose their temper at traffic jams, unruly children, unresponsive coworkers, and unrealistic bosses. But we may not recognize more subtle manifestations of anger, such as being uncomfortable with loose ends, acting impatiently, or being overly critical. That is anger, too. And, as is so often the case, angry folks don't seem to realize that the behavior causing them problems at home or at work actually stems from unrecognized and unresolved pain and emotional injuries from the past. Is all this negative emotion inevitable, or are there choices about how to respond, choices that can improve personal relationships as well as emotional health?
The Anger Trap is a landmark book that strips away the myths and misconceptions about anger and reveals how you can learn to distinguish between healthy and unhealthy anger so that you may choose or help someone else to choose a better, more spiritually enlightened path. The Anger Trap examines the root causes of anger and can help you realize your patterns and break the destructive cycles of criticism, frustration, and irritation that hurt you and others around you.
Drawing insight from timeless spiritual wisdom as well as cutting-edge research, Dr. Carter offers practical techniques to free you from anger, its hidden insecurities, fears, and selfishness and thereby improve the quality of your home and workplace life. The book clearly illustrates how the change process works and The Anger Trap is filled with real-life examples of the ways people have come to terms with their anger by applying the concepts Dr. Carter outlines.
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This book examines the 11 most common styles of anger expression and helps you learn how to communicate your anger in healthy ways. Learn which anger styles work for different situations - and which ones lead to certain disaster. Find out how to become more flexible and creative at expressing your anger. Once you understand the whole range of anger styles, you'll be able to better manage angry feelings and use your anger as a positive force for building a better life.
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Would you like to be able to communicate effectively, and intuitively understand what's going on around you? Would you like to possess a tool which could help you get almost anything you want in life? Would you like to make yourself more employable by becoming more self-aware and a better team player in the constantly changing, and culturally diverse environment? Then this is an audiobook for you!
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Anger Management Workbook for Men
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Clinical therapist Aaron Karmin teaches you the skills to manage your anger without aggression and build up your self-confidence, self-control, and self-respect. The Anger Management Workbook for Men goes beyond why men get angry and helps you get to the root of your anger. It gives you positive and productive anger management tools to strengthen the most important and most overlooked relationship in your life - your relationship with yourself.
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just not good at all.
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How to Win an Election is an ancient Roman guide for campaigning that is as up-to-date as tomorrow's headlines. In 64 BC when idealist Marcus Cicero, Rome's greatest orator, ran for consul (the highest office in the Republic), his practical brother Quintus decided he needed some no-nonsense advice on running a successful campaign.
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Little Red Riding Hood's encounter with a cunning wolf is a metaphor laden with insight and warning that everyone should heed and understand. Why? Because it’s a metaphor for an unwitting relationship with a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath. Regardless of the label, these veiled exploiters are far more common and dangerous to your emotional, financial, and personal well-being than most of us realize. To understand the danger they pose to you and those you love, come along for this retelling of the classic fairy tale and O.N. Ward’s analysis to learn about the prevalence of these ...
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The Cognitive Behavioral Workbook for Anger
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Anger is everywhere - and it has real risks, including heart disease and depression. So, how can you break free from painful, self-defeating, and dangerous anger traps? Drawing on the gold standard treatment for anger-cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) - and informed by the no-nonsense approach of rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) - this workbook is chock-full of powerful tools, exercises, and self-assessments to help you overcome destructive anger, once and for all.
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The 7 Life-Changing Steps to Boost Your Self-Esteem and Silence Your Inner Critic We all know that loving ourselves is important. But, it's never that easy. Millions of people struggle with low self-esteem and don't know how to build confidence. It can be tough to break free from the people in our lives who are toxic and drag us down. And it's even harder to silence our inner critic who tells us we're not good enough. But the good news is, it's something you can work on and improve over time. In this book, we'll show you how to do just that – in 7 simple steps! With this book, you will ...
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Dealing with Anger Issues
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By understanding your own anger triggers and using the right techniques, you can manage your emotions and enjoy a healthy and peaceful marriage. This guide will provide you with all the information you need to understand the causes of your anger spiral and offer a simple, yet effective six-step approach to improve the relationship with your spouse.
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A Symphony of Apologies and Understanding
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Rage
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Do you or someone you care about experience episodes of extreme and unpredictable anger? The first thing you need to know is that you are not alone. Researchers estimate that some seven percent of Americans may at some time experience a condition called intermittent explosive disorder (IED), which is characterized by reoccurring periods of extraordinary anger, and millions more have less frequent yet equally damaging experiences with rage. The second thing you need to know is that there is help.
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so understandable
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The Emotionally Abusive Relationship
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The number of people who become involved with partners who abuse them emotionally and/or who are emotionally abusive themselves is phenomenal, and yet emotional abuse is the least understood form of abuse. In this breakthrough book, Beverly Engel, one of the world's leading experts on the subject, shows us what emotional abuse is and what to do about it.
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Amazing SELF GROWTH
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Traumatic Narcissism (1st Edition)
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In Traumatic Narcissism, Daniel Shaw presents a way of understanding the traumatic impact of narcissism as it is engendered developmentally and as it is enacted relationally. Focusing on the dynamics of narcissism in interpersonal relations, Shaw describes the relational system of what he terms the "traumatizing narcissist" as a system of subjugation - the objectification of one person in a relationship as the means of enforcing the dominance of the subjectivity of the other.
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Extremely validating
- By kdugg2020 on 12-11-24
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- Ryan Jackson
- 02-24-23
Poignant reminder
Most of this material was a poignant reminder of the inverse effect of anger… in that it:
• Makes us weaker instead of stronger
• Causes the message to be lost, despite its’ validity
• IS A CHOICE
• Can be exchanged with kindness, but it takes real EFFORT
Really good source for grounding back to appropriate discipline.
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- April Barker
- 11-25-24
Great book
This was an amazing book. Very eye-opening and made me realize all the ways I display anger.
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- Rett
- 11-08-22
anger management for everyone
I've listened to a few books and this one is the most thorough and thoughtful approach I found. Seems very grounded in both common sense and therapeutic experience. Highly recommend
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- Kaylee Mendonca
- 05-19-22
Its ok to struggle...you can change!!
I currently have been struggling with my own battles on this issue. I found this book downloaded it and started listening while I was at work. I was so hooked on the information provided. I was taking it all in. It made me think about my past experiences, my triggers, how to rationalize a situation even if it may be to intense to handle at the moment, taking a break is ok when needed. This is a must listen, you will dig deep inside yourself, this book will make you think. I learned alot about myself.
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- AA
- 06-03-24
VERY HELPFUL!!!
This was very clear and easy to understand. The author broke everything down into useable bits of wisdom & exercises. I felt convicted of my own anger. These tools are very applicable. Highly recommend it!
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- Kirk Barnett
- 11-07-21
The Anger Trap
I have already shared this book with several people. Everyone can benefit with helpful insights on self and others replacing misery with joy. Learn how to make a difference and/or let go.
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- R. Van der Lugt
- 05-16-23
Learned a ton!
Wouldn’t it be great if you learned about having a healthy relationship to your anger and how to be calmly assertive in a class in high school? Unfortunately, most of us don’t learn this in school or at home. That’s why we need Les Carter’s wisdom in this world! This was one of the most useful books I’ve ever listened to. Now, I’m going to buy myself a paper copy so I can refer to it whenever needed.
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- V. Grossman
- 11-03-23
Loved it!
Great ideas for everyone. I have a better understanding of the anger of other people and in myself. I love the final message of the true meaning of joy.
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- David Barker
- 09-30-22
wow
life changing info - gives perspectives from many different types of people expressing different kinds of and motives for anger. a book worth being studied, learned, and applied.
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- M. Lopez
- 03-03-23
Life-changing
This book illustrates the different ways that anger manifests in our everyday lives, sometimes going by unnoticed, or even disguised as “help” to others. The authors narrate how the patients struggle to see what the problem is, or thinking everyone is wrong. As their stories unfold, it starts making sense why some of us react the way we do. I could definitely relate to a couple of patients. But, seeing the stories from their loved ones’ perspectives is what really made me realize the impact that anger has in our relationships.
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