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Rising Above Anxious Attachment
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Rikki Cloos
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It’s been three days with no call or text back...you can’t eat, sleep, or work. You’re going to die alone in your bed, gripping your phone, waiting for a response; or at least that’s what your brain keeps telling you.
There’s a common flaw that people who chase partners all have in common. Are you an anxious attacher? If you’re still holding your phone hoping they’ll reply then drop it now and pick up this book.
Stop the self-fulfilling prophecy of worrying that your relationships will all end in disaster. Take a deep dive into healing your anxious attachment, learn how to boost your self-esteem and independence, and build a foundation for healthy love. The Anxious Hearts Guide is a collection of years of psychology research, book recommendations, and strategies to help supercharge your relational health and stop pushing potential partners away. It is an approachable, accessible, and enlightening window into why anxious attachers do the frustrating things that we do for love and how to rise above it.
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An estimated 47 million Americans identify as having an anxious attachment style, which can make being in relationships turbulent and emotionally taxing for them. According to groundbreaking research in the field of attachment, anxious types are more prone to insecurity, jealousy, codependency, and other behaviors that get in the way of finding and sustaining love.
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So slow
- By RSC on 04-20-23
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Insecure in Love
- How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
- By: Leslie Becker-Phelps PhD
- Narrated by: Susan Boyce
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
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In Insecure in Love, you'll learn how to overcome attachment anxiety using compassionate self-awareness, a technique that can help you recognize your negative thoughts or unhealthy behavior patterns and respond to them in a nurturing way - rather than beating yourself up. You'll also learn how insecurity can negatively affect healthy dialog between you and your partner (or potential partners) and develop the skills needed to stop you from reverting back to old patterns of neediness and possessiveness.
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attachment theory
- By erika on 02-08-16
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The Complete Healing Journey for Anxious Attachers
- This Book Includes: Attachment Styles Mastery + Anxious Attachment No More!! Define Your Attachment Style, Decode Your Partner's Brain, Discover the Proven Shortcut to Ditch Your Anxiety Away, and Start Living Securely Attached
- By: Taha Zaid
- Narrated by: KC Wayman
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If you have an anxious attachment style, you may struggle to believe you will ever be worthy enough for potential partners, and you may doubt that relationships will ever work out. While it takes hard work to change an insecure attachment style, research shows that people can create secure attachment by doing work on themselves and facilitating better communication with partners. All you need is to learn the tools that this book provides and begin to apply them to your life.
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Perfect Book!
- By Elizabeth Uribe on 08-05-22
By: Taha Zaid
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The Seven Secrets to Healthy, Happy Relationships
- By: Don Miguel Ruiz Jr., HeatherAsh Amara
- Narrated by: Charlie Varon
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In this one-of-a-kind book, best-selling authors Don Miguel Ruiz, Jr. and HeatherAsh Amara share their seven secrets to healthy, happy relationships: Commitment, Freedom, Awareness, Healing, Joy, Communication, and Release. Understanding and enacting these principles can help you at any stage in your intimate partnering, whether you've been with someone for many years or are currently single and want to prepare for a relationship.
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You can expect to feel Liberation and Self-Emancipation
- By DJNN on 01-29-20
By: Don Miguel Ruiz Jr., and others
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Anxious Attachment Recovery
- Go from Being Clingy to Confident & Secure in Your Relationships (Break Free and Recover from Unhealthy Relationships)
- By: Linda Hill
- Narrated by: Alene Sorensen
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Moths that get too close to the light burn their wings. Men and women who become too attached to their partners tear their relationships apart. Your relationship doesn't have to end in heartache like so many others.
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Healing Anxious Attachment
- By Jamie Bee on 08-25-23
By: Linda Hill
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Healing Your Attachment Wounds
- How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships
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- Narrated by: Diane Poole Heller
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From our earliest years, teaches Diane Poole Heller, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our intimate relationships, with our children, and at work. And traumatic events can deeply affect that core relational blueprint. With Healing Your Attachment Wounds, a pioneer in attachment theory and trauma resolution brings together these two fields to help us understand and benefit from their complementary principles and methods.
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u mean i’m not doomed to self inflicted suffocating loneliness?
- By SidVid on 01-20-20
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Anxiously Attached
- Becoming More Secure in Life and Love
- By: Jessica Baum LMHC
- Narrated by: Jessica Baum LMHC
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An estimated 47 million Americans identify as having an anxious attachment style, which can make being in relationships turbulent and emotionally taxing for them. According to groundbreaking research in the field of attachment, anxious types are more prone to insecurity, jealousy, codependency, and other behaviors that get in the way of finding and sustaining love.
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So slow
- By RSC on 04-20-23
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Insecure in Love
- How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
- By: Leslie Becker-Phelps PhD
- Narrated by: Susan Boyce
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
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In Insecure in Love, you'll learn how to overcome attachment anxiety using compassionate self-awareness, a technique that can help you recognize your negative thoughts or unhealthy behavior patterns and respond to them in a nurturing way - rather than beating yourself up. You'll also learn how insecurity can negatively affect healthy dialog between you and your partner (or potential partners) and develop the skills needed to stop you from reverting back to old patterns of neediness and possessiveness.
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attachment theory
- By erika on 02-08-16
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The Complete Healing Journey for Anxious Attachers
- This Book Includes: Attachment Styles Mastery + Anxious Attachment No More!! Define Your Attachment Style, Decode Your Partner's Brain, Discover the Proven Shortcut to Ditch Your Anxiety Away, and Start Living Securely Attached
- By: Taha Zaid
- Narrated by: KC Wayman
- Length: 5 hrs and 54 mins
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If you have an anxious attachment style, you may struggle to believe you will ever be worthy enough for potential partners, and you may doubt that relationships will ever work out. While it takes hard work to change an insecure attachment style, research shows that people can create secure attachment by doing work on themselves and facilitating better communication with partners. All you need is to learn the tools that this book provides and begin to apply them to your life.
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Perfect Book!
- By Elizabeth Uribe on 08-05-22
By: Taha Zaid
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The Seven Secrets to Healthy, Happy Relationships
- By: Don Miguel Ruiz Jr., HeatherAsh Amara
- Narrated by: Charlie Varon
- Length: 4 hrs and 53 mins
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In this one-of-a-kind book, best-selling authors Don Miguel Ruiz, Jr. and HeatherAsh Amara share their seven secrets to healthy, happy relationships: Commitment, Freedom, Awareness, Healing, Joy, Communication, and Release. Understanding and enacting these principles can help you at any stage in your intimate partnering, whether you've been with someone for many years or are currently single and want to prepare for a relationship.
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You can expect to feel Liberation and Self-Emancipation
- By DJNN on 01-29-20
By: Don Miguel Ruiz Jr., and others
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Anxious Attachment Recovery
- Go from Being Clingy to Confident & Secure in Your Relationships (Break Free and Recover from Unhealthy Relationships)
- By: Linda Hill
- Narrated by: Alene Sorensen
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Moths that get too close to the light burn their wings. Men and women who become too attached to their partners tear their relationships apart. Your relationship doesn't have to end in heartache like so many others.
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Healing Anxious Attachment
- By Jamie Bee on 08-25-23
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Blue-Collar Cash
- Love Your Work, Secure Your Future, and Find Happiness for Life
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In a period of skyrocketing student loan debt without the promise of high-paying employment, and in an economy in desperate need of skilled tradespeople, many are seeking new paths. Ken Rusk, the "million-dollar ditch digger", is here to show you that blue-collar trades are a source of pride and that you can - and will - find your version of happiness by pursuing a good old-fashioned craft. In Blue Collar Cash, Ken shares his insights from more than 30 years working in blue-collar trades as an entrepreneur, mentor, and life coach.
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This book should be required reading for everyone.
- By Jay Romanoff on 11-07-20
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It’s completely normal to go through ups and downs. Yet, your relationships with others shouldn’t be something that causes you constant stress, anxiety, or worry. Profound relationships are vital to your mental and emotional well-being. A life filled with beautiful and long-lasting relationships is something you deserve, and it’s time you go out and create this for yourself!
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Insightful. Straight forward
- By Amazon Customer on 09-18-24
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How to Be Everything
- A Guide for Those Who (Still) Don't Know What They Want to Be When They Grow Up
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- Narrated by: Allyson Ryan
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What do you want to be when you grow up? It's a familiar question we're all asked as kids. While seemingly harmless, the question has unintended consequences. It can make you feel like you need to choose one job, one passion, one thing to be about. Guess what? You don't. Having a lot of different interests, projects and curiosities doesn't make you a "jack-of-all-trades, master of none". Your endless curiosity doesn't mean you are broken or flaky.
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Trying too hard to make a thing out of nothing
- By Dela De Youngster on 08-23-20
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Leave It Be
- Alan Watts on the Art of Meditation
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"What would it be like to see all as one?" Alan Watts asks. "We hear about attaining great states of consciousness. But the only way to have a real transformation is to stop thinking about it - and simply experience it." From the 1950s to the 1970s, this seminal teacher sparked the West's love for Eastern wisdom. Now, in these rare recorded gems, he inspires a new generation of inner explorers seeking deeper insights into meditation - its myriad forms, how they work, and what happens when we practice them.
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This is the same book as “you’re it”
- By vin72 on 01-30-20
By: Alan Watts
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Healing Your Lost Inner Child
- How to Stop Impulsive Reactions, Set Healthy Boundaries and Embrace an Authentic Life
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- Narrated by: Randy Scott
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Most people don't realize how much unresolved emotional pain they carry around. They don't know why they always feel depressed, anxious, victimized, or disappointed. They wonder why they keep making the same self-sabotaging impulsive decisions. These patterns often stem from their lost inner child, which carries a false narrative that has been on repeat since childhood.
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Excellent book for healing your inner child
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Enough Overthinking
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Overthinking is when your brain just won’t switch off. It feels like it’s stuck going around and around on the same loop as a hamster stuck on a wheel. But while the hamster is having fun and getting fit, you’re feeling lower and lower and burning out.
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The simple layout of the book
- By Amazon Customer on 12-04-24
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Loving an Avoidant Partner
- Understand Dismissive Attachment Style to Bridge Emotional Distance and Create a Secure Relationship
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- Narrated by: Jennifer Perez
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Introducing "Loving an Avoidant Partner," a groundbreaking guide that takes you deep into the enigmatic maze of an avoidant person's inner world like never before. Armed with remarkable insights, you'll decode the guarded secrets and fears of your elusive partner, shattering the barriers that have kept you apart.
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Very helpful
- By DeAnn Carrier on 12-01-24
By: Krista Cantell
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Know What You're For
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- By: Jeff Henderson, John C. Maxwell - foreword
- Narrated by: Jeff Henderson
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Know What You're For details an effective growth strategy for businesses and nonprofits by closing the gap between two simple questions: What do you want to be known for? What are you known for? When the two answers match, organizations gain incredible momentum by unleashing the most powerful marketing force there is: lasting word-of-mouth support.
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WOW!
- By Keehsa on 03-03-20
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Attached
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- Narrated by: Robert Petkoff
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We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.
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Good book - just not a good one for Audible
- By Mark on 02-01-20
By: Amir Levine, and others
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Secure Love
- Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime
- By: Julie Menanno
- Narrated by: Julie Menanno
- Length: 10 hrs and 27 mins
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What does a healthy relationship look like? A good question, in theory, but couple’s therapist Julie Menanno wants you to consider: what does a securely attached relationship feel like? The answer to this question is the ultimate goal in Secure Love, an “incredibly wise and helpful guide” (Jen Sincero, New York Times bestselling author of You Are a Badass) to understanding secure attachment in adult relationships.
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Best book on relationships I have ever read.
- By pam on 05-03-24
By: Julie Menanno
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Move
- How the New Science of Body Movement Can Set Your Mind Free
- By: Caroline Williams
- Narrated by: Catrin Walker-Booth
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Veteran science journalist Caroline Williams explores the cutting-edge research behind brain health and physical activity, interviewing scientists from around the world to completely reframe our relationship to movement. Along the way she reveals easy tricks that we could all use to improve our memory, maximize our creativity, strengthen our emotional literacy and more. A welcome counterpoint to the current mindfulness craze, Move offers a more stimulating and productive way of freeing our caged minds to live our best life.
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Amazing Book
- By Noah on 02-19-24
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Bad Advice
- How to Survive and Thrive in an Age of Bullshit
- By: Dr. Venus Nicolino
- Narrated by: Dr. Venus Nicolino
- Length: 5 hrs and 31 mins
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In Bad Advice, relationship expert Dr. Venus Nicolino - aka Dr. V - takes a blowtorch to the shrink-wrapped “feel good” BS that passes for self-help these days. Smart and irreverent, Dr. V fuses the brains and insight of a nerdy PhD with the heart of a doting Italian mother and the artful profanity of a Philly trucker. Dr. V’s signature combination of humor, hard science, and heart make Bad Advice an iconoclastic course correction like no other. Bad Advice is a fiercely sharp wake-up call that tackles some of self-help’s most damaging truisms.
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Not my cup of tea.
- By ocean22 on 05-18-19
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- Jessie Ramon Jr
- 04-07-24
Life changing
Thank you for taking the time to write this. As an avoidant, I read/purchased this as a gift to my now ex partner whom I love & miss dearly. I hope this book provides her with the necessary tools/skills to grow, heal and love again. I now have my own work to do and look forward to your next book.
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- Anonymous User
- 07-09-24
Remarkable relatable
From the first chapters, where one can immediately identify with almost all characteristics of an anxious attacher, internal work starts getting done. We start identifying patterns that, instead of helping ourselves and partners, we create a snowball of inappropriate and unsettling emotions. This book helped putting myself in front of a mirror and making it possible to see what others can receive from me. It helped understand the need and desire to grow as an individual and as a human being in general.
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- Chris R
- 12-30-22
wonderfully written and read
I feel as though my friend and I just had a productive 5 hour chat.
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- linz
- 05-07-24
Encouraging support for anxious attachment
What I loved most about this book was the positive encouragement throughout. Words of understanding and support for what you may or may not feel. My outlook just feels a little less anxious. I have a lot of work to do to heal, however this book is a huge stepping stone in the right direction! Lots of guidance, ideas and manageable actions to take. Thank you!
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- Rob
- 05-07-24
Jam packed with helpful advice
I did not know how much I needed this book before listening to or even finishing it. Not only is it full of practicable measures to take, I had many aha moments about my 33-year marriage that helped me view my spouse in a more favorable light that I was unable to previously. Now to repeat listening. Thank you, Rikki!
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- Amazon Customer
- 10-05-24
Brilliant, direct, and compassionate
I often rate books with stars but rarely write comments. If you’re struggling in relationships and feel the audio or typeset samples resonate in any way, do yourself a favor and get this book. You’ll discover ways you didn’t know you needed to change. You’ll drastically improve your relationships. And you’ll finally start loving yourself for who you are.
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- Anonymous User
- 12-30-22
Solid Guidance - Thank you
I had found and followed Rikki’s IG account a couple of months ago - her content topic is important to me. Recorded and live feeds, podcasts, and simple vulnerable posts are great prefaces to this book - if you value those, you will also gain from her book. Rikki Cloos has absorbed, distilled and blended so much helpful, expert insight on this topic, such as the Gottmans, and presents it in a more approachable less academic voice - which for this subject matter, I appreciate hearing the sincerity from my “sister” who has been through it, and not as much the data from my “professor”.
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- Elisabeth Louise Mizner
- 03-01-24
Everything makes more sense now!
I really enjoyed the book. It helped me understand myself on a much deeper level thanks for putting it today and reading it yourself it's always so nice listening to the author read their own books
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- Amazon Customer
- 07-02-23
Excellent Practical Book
Rikki’s reading made this book even more personable. I highly recommend it to an anxious attacher who wants a practical stepping stone for becoming less anxious. This one is concise yet packed with applicable content.
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- Snippersly
- 11-30-24
Anxiety relationship solver
Excellent book from a compassionate author who gives her real world examples of hospitality she overcame her anxious attachment and how you can too. Excellent resource.
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